J.LO'S MANAGER SAYS SHE NEVER HAD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP!

Serial monogamist Jennifer Lopez has never maintained a healthy relationship with a man, according to her longtime manager.

Benny Medina, who is also the godfather of J.Lo’s twins with ex Marc Anthony, speaks candidly about his superstar client in the April issue of Vogue, revealing his take on why Lopez has been unlucky in love.

“The thing that I always sort of wished is that she would give herself time to just naturally meet someone, instead of having obsessive guys pursue her,” Medina says of Lopez, who counts restaurateur Ojani Noa, backup dancer Cris Judd, rapper Diddy and actor Ben Affleck among her former suitors.

“The ease with which that obsession becomes a relationship I think sometimes works against her ability to have a real meaningful relationship. And she never half does anything. When she commits to anything in her work, her life, or her relationships, she is in it,” he told the magazine.

Medina says the Bronx-born bombshell was on “fertile ground” when she fell head over heels for her backup dancer, Casper Smart, shortly after her divorce from Anthony last July.

"She’s not oblivious to her own reality right now, as in, 'Damn, I’m 42 with a 24-year-old. Why?'” he tells Vogue.

“We talked about it yesterday. She was just like, 'It’s not even the age, Benny. It’s that I just came out of a relationship where I felt like I was kind of not getting what I needed. And I’m open! So somebody who steps in right now and is actually touching me in a way.' It’s very fertile ground."

Since they began dating, Smart has been a constant fixture by J.Lo’s side. Though they have been going strong, recent rumors that the two are planning to tie the knot have been debunked.

Speculation arose earlier this week after fashion designer Roberto Cavalli posted a mysterious tweet to his followers, reading: "Today , Jenifer Lopez. Call me...... She ask me. To create a special dress. For her next weding. !" he appeared to Tweet. "Wich color ... Do you advise me. ?"

But before anyone could send their congratulations to the happy couple, Lopez was quick to squash the rumors.

“Here’s the truth now: Roberto Cavalli’s Twitter account was hacked,” she wrote on her website. “The rumor is not true.”

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